Taking Back Control of Your Life

  How can we stop letting what happens outside of us, from infecting our internal side? Maybe someone you like has been cold to you, or your boss said something that’s just killed your confidence. Today I want to give you 3 tips on how you can build internal resilience so that when things happen outside of your control, they…

Break the Rules that Don’t Serve You

  While rules have their place, breaking rules can liberate you from their expectations. When we have a rule in place and things don’t happen according to the rule we become disappointed. So what I want to challenge you guys on today is having less stringent rules. There’s a guy who had quintuplets (5 kids at the same time), and…

How to Get Comfortable with Loneliness

  A lot of people have been messaging me and asking how they can get more people to accept them. The truth, however, is you’ve got to accept yourself first before you expect anybody else to accept you. The problem with getting validation from what other people think is that it often depends on what situation and social circle you’re…

3 Ways to Increase Your Assertiveness

  Sometimes people think assertiveness means people following you and that your way goes. That, in my opinion, is not assertiveness. It’s knowing what you like and dislike, then allowing or disallowing people to treat you in a certain way. I want to challenge you to go stand in the mirror after a long day and ask, “Did I put…

The Value of Curiosity

  I recently learnt how curiosity is such a valuable part of success. As soon as you think you know it all you’re getting into a trap. When I catch myself doing it, I remind myself that I need to be curious, like a child trying to figure everything out. During a recent workshop with a corporate client I noticed…

Help your team to GREATNESS

  I’ve been spending time with some amazing people in the UK and one successful businessman I met taught me something very powerful. He said if you want to grow and make this world a better place you’ve got to do it with people. You’ve got to surround yourself with people who challenge you, make you think differently and who…

No matter how impossible, you CAN live your DREAMS

  Four years ago when I was still in corporate I had a dream that people told me was impossible. That dream was, never ask somebody for a vacation. It didn’t seem possible but what’s amazing is that four years later I can write to you while traveling. It hasn’t been easy and that’s why I want to remind you…

How to handle rejection

  The other day while having drinks with my cousin I saw this really pretty girl. I thought we had a vibe so when I saw her going to the bar I decided to approach her. I greeted her and told her she’d caught my eye but then her response was, “Who are you talking to?” “You,” I said jokingly,…

If you know your WHY, you can overcome any HOW

  What do the successful have over those who aren’t? It is knowing their drive, their motivation and their why. Les Brown says if you have a strong enough why you can overcome any ‘how’. Having a strong enough drive and motivation in life will push you to achieve what you never thought was possible. My dad drives my why.…

What is the most important thing in your life?

  When you reach the end of your life, what will matter most? Will you ask the nurses to carry you out to your brand new Mercedes Benz for one last ride? No. Will you look at your degree, framed in oak, and think, that made my life worth it? No. Will you find comfort in re-reading your financial statements?…

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